I just finished my first ever wearable sewing project. I made a blanket and a beanie (hat) for the illegitimate son of an ex-boyfriend. My heart aches for that baby. You would understand if you knew the parents. I pray for him, that he won't be all bitter about being a bastard child and having lazy parents who don't have a plan for raising him.
And now, for the occassion, here are the lyrics to "Love Child," as sung by Dianna Ross in the 1960's. Its one of those songs that gets stuck in my head sometimes...(my father has been an Oldies D.J. for like 30 years.)
"You think that I don't feel love
But what I feel for you is real love
In other's eyes I see reflected
A hurt, scorned, rejected
Love child, never meant to be
Love child, born in poverty
Love child, never meant to be
Love child, take a look at me
I started my life in an old, cold run down tenement slum
My father left, he never even married mom
I shared the guilt my mama knew
So afraid that others knew I had no name
This love we're contemplating
Is worth the pain of waiting
We'll only end up hating
The child we maybe creating
Love child, never meant to be
Love child, (scorned by) society
Love child, always second best
Love child, different from the rest
Mm, baby (hold on, hold on, just a little bit)
Mm, baby (hold on, hold on, just a little bit)
I started school, in a worn, torn, dress that somebody threw out
I knew the way it felt, to always live in doubt
To be without the simple things
So afraid my friends would see the guilt in me
Don't think that I don't need you
Don't think I don't wanna please you
No child of mine 'll be bearing
The name of shame I've been wearing
Love child, love child, never quite as good
Afraid, ashamed, misunderstood
But I'll always love you"
ckb
Tuesday, May. 14, 2002 at 11:10 AM